In Memoriam Life and Life Only

Former First Lady Barbara Bush: June 8, 1925 – April 17, 2018

Celeste Fremon
Written by Celeste Fremon

Wife of a president of the United States, mother of a president of the United States, mother of a Florida governor who might have become POTUS had the cards broken differently.

She protected her family with the ferocity of a female grizz.

When in 1953, she lost her first daughter, Robin, from leukemia, when the girl was three, Mrs. Bush spiraled into depression and leaned too hard on her eldest son, George W.

She would eventually have four more children: Jeb, Neil and Marvin and, another daughter, Dorothy.

As FLOTUS, Barbara Bush politely declined to dye her gray hair, defiantly wore big, fake, costume jewelry pearls, and fought for literacy for all American children.

Of a visit to an AIDS care group shortly after becoming first lady, Barbara Bush wrote in her memoir:

“It was a wrenching visit. Besides having trouble finding housing and medical care, they all had personal problems. I especially remember a young man who told us that he had been asked to leave his church studies when it was discovered he had AIDS. His parents also had disowned him, and he said he longed to be hugged again by his mother. A poor substitute, I hugged that darling young man and did it again in front of the cameras. But what he really needed was family.”

She was not perfect. Yet, then, none of us can truthfully claim perfection either.

Rest in peace, dear Barbara Bush.

Photo of Barbara Bush by David Valdez, courtesy of the United States Library of Congress


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